Why This Was Made:

This tool helps you identify those things that matter most to you, and helps you make sure that you are achieving them yourself. This can give you more confidence and increase your chances of meeting that special someone as you do more positive activities and mix in more positive circles that are aligned with your values. Getting clear on what you are really looking for in a partner can also help you save time and prevent you from wasting all of your efforts on relationships that were doomed from the start.

How It Works:

This tool helps you understand everything you want in a partner, before narrowing this down to only the things you absolutely need. Making this distinguishment can help you be aware of when you do come across someone who could be a perfect match. This tool then helps you plan ahead so that your chances of finding that special someone are increased exponentially.

How I Use This:

When I did this process, I realised that one of the things I found most attractive in a person was if they had built a business. This is something I clearly valued and saw as an impressive achievement. But then I realised that I wasn’t even a business owner myself, and if I value it so much in someone else, its because I would also value it this much in myself. I realised that I needed to get to work on one of my biggest goals, which was to be a business owner. And I have no doubt that following this path will allow me to meet potential partners as I mix in circles with like-minded people who are pursuing similar interests.

Quotes:

“Don't chase, attract” - Anonymous

“He that falls in love with himself will have no rivals.” - Ben Franklin